Thursday, December 27, 2007

Thankful

As this year comes to an end, it is but proper to thank those who have made my year memorable and remarkable. It goes without saying that without them, my life would definitely be different. So as a tribute to them, I am posting this in recognition of their invaluable contribution in shaping and making my year the way it was.

To the following people, my heartfelt gratitude to you all!

To my Mom and Dad, for bearing with me during my “invisible” months and for being my inspiration to strive for what we all want for me to achieve;

To my Sister, Brother-In-Law, and to my little Niece, for your understanding and for bringing cheer into my otherwise desolate life thru your wonderful daughter;

To my Auntie, for being my generous benefactor and our family’s “saving grace;”

To my barkada, Angelo, Darrell, Leslie, and Jay, for being a part of my life and for letting me understand the true meaning of friendship;

To Ace(+), for sharing your brief yet meaningful life with me, and for reminding us to cherish every moment we have in this world;

To Mon, for being my “best buddy” in law school and for entrusting me with your confidence;

To my brother Perry, my “review sidekick,” for the company and intelligent conversations;

To all my Ordo brods and sis, thank you for you understanding;

To Bogs, for being my trusted confidant and spiritual counselor, and for allowing me to experience God’s loving power;

To Jeff, Tetet, Owen, Mike, and the rest of CLASE, for opening my eyes to the wonderful grace of God;

To Lorets, Alou, and their baby girl Faith Marylou, for introducing me to God once again, and for being my inspiration to continue serving Him;

To all my law school friends and to those who I met in law school, thank you for the memories, both pleasant and otherwise;

To AA and MAD, for being my inspirations in law school, albeit briefly;

To Ma’am Pagui, our “foster mother” in law school, thank you for boosting our morale when we feel like giving up, and for believing in us despite our shortcomings;

To all my professors, both undergraduate and post-graduate, for imparting on me both your knowledge and wisdom;

To Ma’am AVSTD, for the invaluable help and confidence you entrusted on me;

To Eric Virata, Anthony James Bueno and Samier Gogna, A.K.A. Slick Rick, Tony Toni and Sam Y G of “Boys Night Out,” for being my “guilty pleasure,” for turning me into an insomniac through your “senseless” late-night show and for sharing with us your wonderful and very educational vocabulary (Apir!);

To the rest of my friends (Grade School, High School, College, Law), thank you for becoming a part of my life, past or present;

And last but definitely not the least, to Our Almighty GOD, for showering me with blessings this year and for unceasingly reminding me of His presence.

Again, my sincerest gratitude to all of you and cheers to a wonderful year ahead!


Wednesday, December 19, 2007

My Simple Holiday Wish List

Christmas is just around the corner (six more days, to be exact), and like most people, I can almost feel it. Days and nights have already turned colder nowadays, which makes a very good excuse for staying in bed longer than usual. Lights and decorations also adorn houses, although some households prefer to do this at a minimum, perhaps to lessen their holiday electric consumption (which I find proper, ever since news about electricity rate hike starting next year circulated).

And then there’s the Misa de Gallo or commonly referred to as “Simbang Gabi.” Uniquely Filipino, the 9-day dawn novena masses have become part of our traditional commemoration of the birth of our Savior. Many believe that completing the novena masses would make your wishes come true. The Church, however, is quick to advise that it is our faith which makes them come true. And as what our recently installed parish priest said in his sermon during one of the dawn masses, God would ultimately grant our wishes “in His time.”

So what am I wishing for this holiday season?

I actually have a simple wish list, and it does not have to happen during this season. Although I understand that completing the 9-day novena masses does not guarantee that they will all come true, I just hope that God will grant those which He sees as proper.

Most of the items in my wish list range from the absurd to the impossible. From the Wish Ko Lang type to the Wish-I-Am-A-Millionaire kind. So here goes, in no particular order:

1. Meet the Girl of My Dreams

Well, she does not have to appear in my dream to become my girl. All she needs to do is to accept me as I am.

2. Meet Marimar’s Marian Rivera

I am not able to catch GMA 7’s Marimar recently, but every time I do I always admire Marian Rivera’s acting, not to mention her looks. I would suppose that her acting has greatly improved since she began shooting two Metro Manila Film Festival (MMFF) official entries: Desperadas and Bahay Kubo, both helmed by Joel Lamangan. For this reason alone, you guys would know what movie this guy will be watching coming December 25.

(Marimar Picture courtesy of ederic.tinig.com)

3. Meet Toni Gonzaga



4. Meet Pauleen Luna



5. Meet Angelica Panganiban

6. One “Wholesome” Day with Rufa Mae Quinto

Don’t get me wrong. I placed the quotes in “wholesome” to emphasize that such day would really be wholesome. My mom met her one time and she told me that she is really funny in person. Imagine what would be your day if you are with this beautiful funny person for one whole day.

7. Meet Steven Spielberg

Okay, so this is the “impossible” part. But who knows? I've been his fan since I've seen Schindler's List. His latest movie, Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull, is due to be released summer next year.

8. Make a Movie

But first I need the money, right? I guess I have to wish for it, too.

9. Get a Movie Pass for my Favorite Cinemas

In my previous posts, I’ve listed some of my favorite cinemas in town. Just one movie pass from any of them would be enough.

10. Travel Abroad

Hopefully I don’t have to do this in order to earn a living, but to explore new surroundings and learn more about our world.

11. Become a Lawyer

12. Get Hired

I hope this wish happens any time soon.

13. Hear Myself on the Radio

A few weeks back, I tried to call a radio station for the first time, and on my first dial I was able to get through. I was placed “on hold” and I waited for almost 30 minutes, only to be dropped by the DJs. Haaay…Apir!

14. Be Seen on TV

I hope it is not in the news.

15. Get All My Wishes Granted

Enough said.


Wednesday, December 5, 2007

A Tribute to Job Seekers

In 2002, this author submitted an essay in the annual literary contest sponsored by the official student publication of his university. The essay, written in Filipino, was awarded an Honorable Mention (Karangalang Banggit) and was even included in the compilation of winning entries in the said literary contest. The essay, titled Bentesingko, speaks about a young college graduate who always sees a 25-centavo coin on his path during the entire period of his unemployment.

In an interview, the author admitted that the essay was not entirely about his personal experiences but was based on the story of his friend, who happened to experience such “bizarre” phenomenon over and over again. Since the essay was not partly based on his experience, the author did not realize how prophetic his essay will become on his personal life.

Until yesterday.

After following up one of my job applications, I came to realize how difficult it is to be hired and to get employed. I actually thought that once a student earns his degree and becomes qualified for a job, he can automatically be hired. Oh, how stupid can I get? I failed to understand that there are actually other persons who are similarly qualified (or even highly qualified).

It is thus not surprising that job fairs are always jam-packed with job seekers and classified ads are the most-read sections in the dailies today.

I now come to share with the thousands (or should I say, millions?) of unemployed individuals in this country their agony, pain, frustration, desperation, and everything else that comes along our journey as we try to find our place in the labor sector. To all of you guys, my hats are off for you.

As a form of tribute to my unemployed (as of the moment, I hope) colleagues, and as my way of sharing a piece of my mind, I would like to share with you certain tips on job hunting:

Take Job Hunting Very Seriously

We job seekers should consider ourselves as soldiers that are being deployed into an unknown territory. Thus, one must have his complete arsenal ready when venturing into war–that is, war against unemployment.

It pays to keep our resumés ready. Updating them and checking them for typographical or factual errors every once in a while will ensure that we will not get rejected simply because we called the “Vice-President” as a mere “Manager” or we called a “Ms.” a “Mrs.”

Also, an impressive design for a resumé would sometimes spell the difference between our applications being hired or getting rejected. It helps to layout the contents of the resumé according to their significance in the job one wants to be hired. Even the paper for the resumé needs to be considered. One may choose the kind of paper which would stand out when placed in a pile of office documents, since our goal is to get our applications noticed.

Aside from the resumé, one should have his latest pictures ready. Having the original copies of our Transcript of Records and Diplomas in hand while applying for a job will also be helpful especially when employers demand photocopies to be compared with the original ones.

Time Is Of The Essence

The key word here is “promptness.”

It is advisable that once a graduate gets hold of his Transcript of Records, he should already consider sending out his applications. While it would be impressive to include your Diploma in your resumé, our Transcript of Records would suffice to prove that we graduated.

Also, we must make it a habit to come to our job interviews earlier than the assigned time. Arriving a few minutes before the interview actually gives us an opportunity to look around the place and familiarize ourselves with the surroundings, thus relieving our anxiety.

Use Your Connections

One may consider calling his or her friends, previous friends, or the friends of his or her friends to find out if they know any job vacancies or they themselves need some employees. They may also be helpful in getting recommendations and character references.

Amplify Your Selling Points

In making resumés, one may consider it as a written advertisement of one’s self. Thus, it is advisable to design it in a way that one’s qualifications are highlighted.

Keep Your Head Low

Although there is nothing wrong with amplifying one’s qualifications in his or her resumé, one must still remember that we are still at the mercy of the employers. We are not in the position to choose the work we will be assigned to perform. Remember the Beatitudes: “Happy are those who are humble; they will receive what God has promised (Matthew 5:5).

During the Waiting Period, Try Improving Your Skills

There is always a room for improvement, and the best opportunity for one to do so is when he has nothing to do. Thus, while waiting for our job applications to be considered, one may try harnessing one’s talents and skills. I, for one, find blogging as one way of improving my language and writing skills. One may also try learning other skills to add to their qualifications.

Pray

This is the most important tip I am willing to share to all of you guys. One must remember that no matter how difficult one’s situation is, God is still here to help us. And in times of desperation (perhaps just like the many of us who are currently unemployed), let His will be done and let us all believe that everything that happens to us has a purpose.

(Photo courtesy of http://www.mysudbury.ca/)